I'm guided by long held principals among which are equality, trust, empathy, kindness, and respspect. My principals are immutable. I'd so like to find someone near my age that will go out into the woods and hang with my 35 and under friends and listen to music. Be prepared to attend the theater, a drum circle, or a concert as well. I don't enter a relationship looking for an outcome. I'm OK with friends as a outcome..I don't do one night stands. It leaves no space for building tension. I' Sexually I get my kick by pleasuring. I'm a lesbian trapped in a male body. I like to play. Having said that I'm a bit of a Dom sans the pain.