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saying no 9/10/2019
Besides compliments, another thing the person you’re
saying no to might appreciate is knowing why. Sometimes
it’s best to be candid about your constraints. <br><br>
Example: I can’t handle the meeting for you this afternoon—I’m
busy onboarding a new hire and have a deadline I need to hit.
<br><br>
Example: This is a sweet pitch, but our doesn’t
have a budget ...
2 Comments, 19 Views,
10 Votes
,1.79 Score |
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Good luck loll 9/5/2019
At all the men want do something on me
1 Comments, 13 Views,
5 Votes
,1.19 Score |
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Older Guy Uh No 9/5/2019
I had a conversation with a guy online a few months back.
He showed me pictures of his perfect ripped body. Very sexy
needless to say. Told me he had glowing white teeth and woman
have complimented him on his neat overall appearance.
This conversation went on for at least 2 months before I
finally decided to meet him. He lived about 3 hours away
so I agreed to get a motel room and wait for him. I ...
5 Comments, 74 Views,
14 Votes
,2.82 Score |
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Vegan Santa 9/3/2019
There is a guy on here that keeps creeping on me. He looks
like Vegan Santa Claus. He can't take a hint. I don't
want to message him because he is not worth the points.
1 Comments, 13 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score |
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Manners 8/31/2019
I have been told no thanks before and it’s no big deal.
I know I’m not everyone’s type. I’ve told others
no thanks before. We all have different tastes. Please
use manners and respect other’s preferences. It’s
not personal to you, and you may even win someone over
being polite. No name calling or rude comments, just excuse
yourself politely.
2 Comments, 26 Views,
19 Votes
,2.46 Score |
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Reply’s 8/23/2019
It really is not that hard to say no thanks to a reply I mean
as least it’s a response
4 Comments, 26 Views,
4 Votes
,4.80 Score |
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Such A Simple Reply... 8/19/2019
On here there tends to be a lot of profiles. Now when
one does Seem to be authentic and is sent a genuine, Polite
instant message they do not reply. Now I know what most say
about the guys to last ratio and how most ladies are just
so overwhelmed with IMs. However they are notified about
a New IM. Now the normal proper and polite thing to do is to
at least respond with a "No Thanks" or ...
6 Comments, 45 Views,
19 Votes
,2.99 Score |
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Replies 8/19/2019
I wish women would just say no thanks instead of saying nothing
all. Do you agree?
4 Comments, 41 Views,
15 Votes
,3.28 Score |
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Response on IM 8/16/2019
Why is it that 80% of the people on IM don’t respond at all?
If you’re not interested say so, don’t just leave someone
to wonder if the P.O.S. Messenger app is actually sending
their messages
9 Comments, 48 Views,
21 Votes
,3.00 Score |
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Expectations vs No Expectations 8/13/2019
There is maybe a perception that all messages deserve a
response. However, as a woman who chooses to interact in
an adult forum online, I would suggest maybe less emphasis
is placed on the recipient responding and perhaps the senders
have less expectations. I would take the attitude, if a message of mine is not responded
to they are not interested or simply too busy. As I too have
messaged ...
12 Comments, 182 Views,
43 Votes
,3.46 Score |
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some folk 8/9/2019
got it down pat.
1 Comments, 13 Views,
7 Votes
,0.75 Score |
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Do you really accept a "no, thank you"? 8/6/2019
I see a few people asking why can't women just say "no,
thank you" instead of not replying? Well, here's
this, not all people take gracefully. Some decide
to berate you or to continually contact you after you've
declined. I've had to say no to the same individuals
multiple times until I've had to block them. Is
okay? If someone doesn't respond to me, I take ...
11 Comments, 112 Views,
39 Votes
,2.99 Score |
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What is wrong With People 8/6/2019
Is is so hard to just say no thank you I am not interested.
I had invested some time and effort into communicating
with someone. My husband said he might be interested in
a couples sort of situation. So I shared that. After
multiple communications and trying to arrange a time to
meet. I extended multiple invitations including drinks with our spouses and then to a swing party.
I had assumed he ...
4 Comments, 83 Views,
29 Votes
,4.04 Score |
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Being a young guy into older women 7/29/2019
Why is it so hard to find a good woman who loves men?
Is it something people are ashamed of in 2019 of all years?
Girls my age are not drawn to me the way older women are but
still it seems none of them want to commit to their feelings
and urges. I honestly dont see color or age or shape as long
as we respect each other but I do wish I could find an older
woman to treat the way she deserves. ...
1 Comments, 2 Views,
0 Votes
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Fake pictures 7/24/2019
Why are there sooooo many fake pictures on here? some even
use the photo for multiple accounts cant stand it!
less faking more fucking am i right
1 Comments, 7 Views,
4 Votes
,0.92 Score |
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I miss her 7/20/2019
Her husband dosnt let her anymore but weve become friends
do u think she will suck and fuck me again?
1 Comments, 31 Views,
20 Votes
,1.59 Score |
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Wasting points 7/19/2019
Why do we even have points if thet never txt u bak its so stupid
i dnt even know why i keep wasting points for.
2 Comments, 24 Views,
15 Votes
,3.44 Score |
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emotional rollercoaster 7/17/2019
always feel bad when i have to turn someone down, less a guy
thats pretty fucking easy , God! Any advise how to let someone
down without hurting their feelings! It sucks to do it,
I hate it.
2 Comments, 17 Views,
9 Votes
,1.50 Score |
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You Deserve to be Picky 7/9/2019
Don't do what I did. <br><br>
As a young bi-curious guy on this site, my first experience
that came from here was... mediocre to say the least. I didn't
have prior experience sexually and I settled for the first
man willing to suck me off just out of convenience. I thought
I wouldn't get other offers. <br><br>
So now, the image of a toothy blowjob from an obese ...
1 Comments, 23 Views,
12 Votes
,1.56 Score |
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Why i came here 7/6/2019
I came to this site after i lost my wife to cancer. I was a lost
man who was spoiled and loved at same time. I am here to learn
what women of today want and what i can bring from the past
to today and still enjoy . But to my shock after 4 years of
great marrage that some women not all women on here are only
after Itune cards or other things to have me buy for them.
But im not here to buy ...
4 Comments, 32 Views,
12 Votes
,1.74 Score |
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why is it so hard for girls to just say no? 7/6/2019
I understand the possible stigma's or asshole-ish
responses might get from jerks who think they are owed sex
because (who knows why.) But Is it really hard, especially
in a virtual setting, or in a , to just say "sorry,
I changed my mind, " or flat out, "no."
asking because I feel as though some women who did
not tell me they had changed their minds and just decided
to ...
4 Comments, 46 Views,
25 Votes
,0.59 Score |
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No means no 7/6/2019
It's not easy say "No Thanks", especially
when the other person is interested and you aren't.
I think some subtle attempts work best, with a final heart
heart often the way.
1 Comments, 40 Views,
12 Votes
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Does it hurt ot have proper manners? 6/14/2019
So, I was sitting here thinking, 'How hard is it really
to just reply and say "No Thank You, I'm (We're)
not interested." <br><br>
I know there are people who will be ultimately be idiots
and not take the simple straight forward hint, but those
should be the exception and not the norm. <br><br>
If we all were to make a concerted effort to be more ...
8 Comments, 42 Views,
21 Votes
,3.99 Score |
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Not 'no thanks' but 'can't now' .... 6/14/2019
I normally have to plan my playtimes, for very specific
days and hours. Frequently I get into conversations with
guys who get very rude when I can't drop things and '
now' to take care of their wants. not turning
them down, just letting them know I have time constraints,
like most folks have. I get every response from the usual
'you're missing a good thing' to the ...
3 Comments, 35 Views,
19 Votes
,1.41 Score |
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Funny. "Saying no thanks" was gonna be my title. 6/14/2019
You know what I truly enjoy? Hitting on dudes I know are gonna
be uncomfortable when I do so. Not cause I expect a positive
response, but because the negative responses lead to my
favorite thing to tell a dude: 's how you make women
feel. I especially love to do this after witnessing them
making an ass out of themselves when hitting on one of my
friends. <br><br>
This applies to ...
2 Comments, 22 Views,
15 Votes
,0.99 Score |
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Don't be rude! 6/11/2019
I prefer responding to say "no thanks" rather
than ignore someone. No one likes to be ignored.!
7 Comments, 57 Views,
14 Votes
,4.58 Score |
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please be polite 6/11/2019
what is it girls can;t reply and just say not interested
thanks
6 Comments, 30 Views,
10 Votes
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How to get men to stop messaging me 6/6/2019
I get messaged way more by men than women on here. I have my
profile set as straight(women only) but somehow men are
messaging me. Is there anyway I can put a spot to this.
don’t have a problem with gay or bi people but it’s just
not for . Any advice would be great because it’s getting
ridiculous. Thanks
3 Comments, 33 Views,
13 Votes
,2.30 Score |
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No response 5/24/2019
I have recieved numerous messages and IMs and have gotten
no replies back. What is the purpose of reaching out and
not saying a thing. Makes you wonder why. Post a response
and share your thoughts on one. I'm sure there's
plenty of people on here would like to know how you feel.
1 Comments, 15 Views,
5 Votes
,0.86 Score |
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points 5/16/2019
just here for the points
3 Comments, 17 Views,
11 Votes
,3.17 Score |